The answer to the madness
By Corner Post
In a world where being “connected” is thought to be a necessity, there is strong evidence that it’s time to think again and start disconnecting. Personal restraint is needed now more than ever. The volume and the degree of negative messaging seem to have no boundaries. News (radio, TV and print) used to provide unbiased facts, and we were left to decide how we felt about them. Now, we’re prompted to feel certain ways and are left to try to discern pertinent facts from prejudiced statements.
Where once people of differing opinions would discuss benefits of their particular viewpoints to encourage others to “jump the ditch” to their way of thinking, wide chasms exist across which entrenched parties hurl accusations and insults. As a society, our blood pressures are up, sleep quality is way down. More people are taking prescription medications for anxiety, depression and anger management than ever before.
What’s the answer to this madness? A good start is to consider how various “connections” change our moods, physical condition and our relationships. Do I feel upset or at ease after watching/reading/listening to a particular program or medium? Does a certain person or program provide positive, useful messaging or is it negative and upsetting? Are you being fed hope and encouragement, or are troubling accusations being shoved down your throat?
This has nothing to do with political party, race, religion or social class. It applies equally to all. We all need to hear and see more good news. It’s out there. In fact, if you disengage from negative sources, it’s easier to find than the divisive, troubling rot that’s being peddled by many sources. And when we recognize the good in our own life and in those around us, we need to share it. We should hold our tongue more when tempted to accuse and gossip. Make a point to bring up good news with your customers, partners, and other people you network with. Be a bright spot with other people and express gratitude for blessings that abound in your life.
