Local experts highlight importance of reporting signs of stalking

By Jenna Wilson

January is Stalking Awareness Month, and though it affects millions in the U.S., it’s a crime that can often be overlooked. 

The U.S. Department of Justice describes stalking as engaging in conduct that causes a reasonable person to fear for his or her safety or the safety of others.

Signs of stalking can include unwanted text messages, unwanted phone calls, unwanted following on social media and similar actions.

Local experts say stalking is a serious crime that can often be minimized or overlooked completely.

“Stalking is very much similar to sexual violence and domestic violence as it’s really based under power and control,” said Corina Merritt, survivor outreach specialist at St. Joseph’s YWCA. “It can be done online, in person or through technology, and victims can start to grow anxious, nervous and even develop signs of depression once they experience stalking.”

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, reports show 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men have been stalked at some point in their lives.

The Buchanan County Prosecuting Attorney’s Office doesn’t come across stalking cases often, but it’s a criminal offense that is taken seriously.

“Any case that falls in line with domestic is taken very seriously,” said Richard Parks, assistant prosecuting attorney for Buchanan County. “In Missouri, a stalking misdemeanor results in a $2,000 fine and up to a year in jail. If you’re looking at first-degree stalking, it’ll be an E felony and you’re looking at up to four years in jail or prison and up to $10,000 in fine. If you target law enforcement, someone related to law enforcement or if you’re a previous offender, then you’re looking at up to seven years and a $10,000 fine.”

Merritt said signs of stalking can be complex and it’s important to have a safety plan and report any dangerous behavior from another person who may be stopping by your school or work without permission, threatening to hurt you or any other action that controls or frightens you.

“Trust your instincts and do not hesitate to call 911 if you think you are in danger,” she said. “One of the most important things you can do is keep a log of everything they do, the date and times because this can be used to help you in filing your order of protection.”

For assistance with filing an ex parte, order of protection or general information about safety planning, the YWCA can be reached at (816) 232-4481.